Saturday, January 30, 2016

An Epic Match for the Ages

An Epic Match for the Ages

So this is about a month (and a half!) late, but I wanted to describe a soccer match between Miryante and the nearest trading center (aka nearest town, Kakabara.) As you are reading this, imagine yourself listening to a British sportscaster reading this out loud! I hope you enjoy!

Soccer is, like it or not, the world’s sport. It is multigenerational, multilingual, and brings us together like nothing else. There have been many matches played on many pitches throughout the world over the past century, but few have had as much riding on it as a match played on 17 Oct 2015. It truly was a match for the ages as the underdog team from Miryante Orphans Home played a much more experienced, tested team from Kakabara. The match promised all of the fittings of a good match: interesting stories of players, a large pitch, and the inspirational story of the orphans who truly wanted a win. It is a wonderful story.

It was a perfect day for football that day. The big concern was the recent rains would have made the pitch a muddy mess, but thankfully the football gods bestowed perfect weather, and a dry field for play. This is hollowed ground for the Miryante side, as it is the place where many of the children have played over the years. (Side note, the pitch is riddled with rocks, sticks, and mounds of animal dung, has many undulations, and patches of grass and dirt that would make any American or European team cringe at the site of it; but is home turf for the Ugandans.)


A view of the pitch (aka soccer field)

Leave it to me to sit with the one with more attitude then me!

Laura and her kids, excited about the match!

The drums are out, and the kids from Miryante are ready to cheer on their team!
A view of the match from behind the kitchen...


At the end of the game, despite the loss, even this one was still smiling...



A celebratory beverage after the game for the Miryante side!


The rival team from Kakabara slowly arrived via one car, mostly bicycles and motos. They slowly assembled under a large tree on the opposite side of the pitch. They looked menacing, larger, older, and more experienced than the Miryante team.

But the Miryante side scored a coup earlier in the day, as they had convinced a key member of the Kakabara team to join them: Adolf, the starting goalie for Kakabara, decided that his talents for that day would be best served for Miryante (Yes, that Adolf, Laura’s friend for many years!). The children and Miryante fans were ecstatic, and saw their chances of winning increase against the Goliath that was Kakabara.

As the 4 pm match time approached, the bell was stuck, and all work at Miryante stopped. The entire orphanage came to the pitch to watch the epic battle. Even the mzungus (Laura, Gordon, and I) were excited about the match. A large cheering section gathered behind the Miryante goal, drums and dancers routing for their fellows. It was quite the sight for this reporter. To lend a hand, I led the Miryante team in warm-ups, much to the chagrin of Laura. Shortly after 4 pm, the referee blew the whistle, and the match commenced.

The first half was a flurry of back and forth action between both sides. The more experienced Kakabara side controlled the ball the majority of the half, with at least 4 shots on goal. However, the smaller Miryante team had their work cut out for them as they tried to control Kakabara. They struggled offensively, and only managed 2 errant shots on goal. By halftime, both sides were tired, with the Miryante group more so than the team from Kakabara.

I am not sure what was said by the Miryante manager, but the start of the 2nd half showed a resurgent Miryante group. They attacked the ball on defense, and showed more offensive power. It appeared that they had the momentum in the 2nd half, until a well timed pass by Kakabara led to a goal. You could feel the breath being kicked out of the Miryante faithful. However, they were undettered. They continued to attack, and held off the Kakabara group nicely. And then, it happened: A beautiful pass by one of the caretakers to a student from the technical school, and a perfect right footer into the upper left corner of the goal. The entire village went crazy, and bedlam ensued:



After a few minutes, play resumed. The Miryante faithful really thought they could pull it off. However, the Kakabara side proved too much for the defense, and scored a goal a few minutes later, briefly crushing the spirits of the Miryante team and fans. Undeterred, they continued to press on, fighting with everything they had to find an equalizer. However, in the end, the team from Kakabara proved too strong: the referee blew the whistle about 15 min later, ending this storied match at 2-1.

The fans were sad, but happy their team fought so valiantly for this one. They knew deep in their hearts that they would have another chance soon enough. For this observer, it truly was a match from the heart, and one that he will never forget.

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Ok, so a little tongue-in-cheek. But a cool event to see. I loved the drummers, signing, and dancing. I am really glad I was able to be a part of it.
Long overdue post

Wow. I guess it has been a while since I last posted. I made so many promises to post, but life got in the way. More posting, I promise. 

Overall, life has been good to this guy. As they say here in Rwanda, somehow I am surviving. Work is getting busier and busier. The lighter patient load I had in Oct and November gave away to busier wards now. With that comes more responsibility. And the patients are sicker, and they are difficult to treat here in Rwanda. It breaks my heart sometimes. 

In addition, my internet at home and at work has really been suffering over the past few months. There are more days with crappy internet than with functioning internet. My friends are experiencing similar problems. This week seems to have improved tremendously, hence the posts. 

Here are some updates:

-  I went to visit my brother, Scott, in Abu Dhabi for Thanksgiving. RwandAir has a non-stop flight to Dubai daily, for a decent price. It was about a 5.5 hour flight, but the times suck. Leave Kigali at 6 pm, a 45 min layover in Addis Abba, and then to Dubai. I arrived at 4 AM, and took a 90 min taxi from there to the Abu Dhabi Airport, where my brother picked me up, and we drove to his school. He is an art professor at an all Women’s School called al Zayeed University. It was enormous, and modern. I passed out for an hour while he was teaching (not in the same room, people.…) We spent Thanksgiving with his friends from Australia. We found a small Turkey, and made all the fixings. It was a lot of fun. We spent the next few days exploring his city, going Middle Easter rug shopping (for me,) going out with his friends, and, most importantly, watching a Formula 1 race. The last race of the Formula 1 season is the Abu Dhabi Grand Prix. It was truly amazing to be a part of it. I can now cross that off my bucket list. My brother and father are bigger fans than I am, and I can imagine them going to Monaco one day to watch the most famous race of the circuit: The Monaco Grand Prix. Overall, it was an amazing trip. UAE is a weird, but somehow cool place. I am glad I went, to see the interesting world that is UAE, and Abu Dhabi. 

-  I went home for Christmas for 12 days (+ 2, 24 hour days of travel… sigh…) It was great to be home for a break, to see my family, and to be an American for a little while. Everything works so well there; life seems, I don’t know, easier? Everything is also bigger than I remember it: grocery stores, cars, food, people. I was also home for the craziness that is the Holiday season, with constant bombardment of Christmas music, sales, consumerism. That does’t really exist here. Regardless, home was fun. My family is amazing, and I miss them. Christmas day was fun, as was Boxing Day. My brother and I have a tradition of going to see a movie the day after Christmas every year. This year was a big movie: “Star Wars: The Force Awakens.” We have been looking forward to that for a while. Wow, what a great film. While the theater was not packed (they were showing the movie every hour, all day…) those in attendance, yours truly included, were cheering as familiar characters returned to the screen. My childhood flashed in front of my eyes. I loved it, and will probably see it again. We also saw some other relatives from Michigan, including my 90 year old Great Aunt, who is thriving in her retirement community there. I also went down to Columbus for a few days, saw some friends, and relived my time there. I kind of miss it. I spend New Years Eve with my siblings in downtown Cleveland. That was the first time we have EVER spend New Year’s together as adults. By the time Jan 2 rolled around, it was time time head back to Kigali. It was hard saying goodbye to my parents, siblings, and friends, but I knew that my life here in Rwanda was calling me back. I had some more fun in store for me when I returned in Rwanda: a gorilla expedition!

-  So I went to see the gorillas on Jan 6 with a long time friend of mine, Maggie Gilbert. She is a money veterinarian at the Tulane Primate Research Center north of Lake Ponchartrain, the lake that serves as the northern border of New Orleans. When the opportunity to see gorillas with her because a possibility, I jumped at the chance; I mean who better to see gorillas with than a primate veterinarian! I will save the details on my gorilla expedition for a different post. 

By the time I finally made it home to Butare on 9 Jan, I was so glad to be home, see my dog, Magnum, and settle back to my routine. I was rather happy to be home. The garden looked good, everything was green, flowers were blooming….. and there was no power and it was pouring down rain when I reached Butare. Normally, the rains are done by early January, but climate change (including El NiƱo) affect Africa. Plus, I had a medical student friend of mine, Kevin Hachey, with me. He was going to do a rotation with me for one month, and I agreed to let him stay with me. 

So, folks, all in all, I am now settled back in to life here. It has been a crazy 2 weeks of sick kids, increased responsibility at work, meetings in Kigali, a Hash (yet another post coming soon), and life in general. 

I can honestly say that I am truly happy here, despite all of the little frustrations. One of my NY resolutions was to prevent these frustrations from affecting me. So far, so good. I am learning how to adjust to life here, to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference Yes, I know, I borrowed this phrase from a famous prayer, but it really does help with life here. 

Much, much more to come my friends. And I promise it will not be 2 months before I post again!

Tusongera (See you soon in Kinyarwanda)


Craiger